Category: Singles Spit Swap
Hey this is Stephen,, I am from Tennessee, And I am single, And I was wondering, How should I go about finding some one, I mean, I am 26 years old, And It's driving me crazy waiting on some one. I mean every one that I have talked too is either allready in a relationship, Or their not looking. I live in Chattanooga Tennessee, But Every time I look, All I have gotten from sited people, is Will I have to take cair of you, Or I'll have to change my life around for you. I will be moving to Nashville Tennessee in afew Months, But It's so hard to wait, What should I do?
Wait, 'cause if you look, you usually don't find, and if you do find, you may find yourself with the wrong sort of person. Just my unwise advice. lol
Yah, I understand, But It's like I have to do something, to maybe get them to even consider me. I just wonder what I have to do to be excepted. Do you think getting involved in church would help? I mean, I've ben in a Prize band before, And It sucked! People thought that I didn't do anything durring the day, And that all I did was play Guitar, And I felt like I had to try to prove them wrong, And I talked to one of the prize band members after I got back from Louisiana, And It was like talking to a brick wall! I mean I asked them what was boing on in their life, And they told me, But when I tried to tell them what I had ben doing with mine, They didn't seem to cair! I was hopeing after I came back from the Louisiana center for the blind, They would ask me Questions like What was it like down their? And How did you do all this stuff on your own, Or even act like they were entrested in what I had vben doing for the past year with me being gone for the past year! Some times I wonder whye sighted people give us the cold sholder even when we've tried to get out there and do something with are lives?
If you're wondering what to do, just be yourself. If you're desperate, it will show. I'm in Nashville, BTW.
I'm not really desporet, I am just tired of waiting around on the write person! I want to find some one that will except me for me, And Not just for my music, And No matter what happens, They'll love me no matter what. And they won't try to control me, And also I am looking for some one that won't have sex before Marage, And is not just wanting me for that. I am also looking for some one that will love are kids if we have any, And also i don't want to have kids untel after I'm Married. And who ever I marry, I don't want them to drink, smoke or do drugs! How should I go about meeting people?
All you can do is put yourself out there, be it church, or any other situation/place where the type of person you'd like to meet is likely to hang out. You can't rush fait.
Hi Stephen,
I would say stick to your morals. And Go to church. The single women outnumber the single men at church. But, most importantly, let the Lord lead you to the young woman who he has intended for you. Don't rush, just follow the leading of the Holy Spirit, and he will bring the person into your life who you are ment to be with. Continue to use this time to prepare yourself for a long-term relationship, which it seems as though you are already doing. And ask God for his guidance. Most importantly, keep praying. God Says that the fervant prayers of the rightious availith much. I hope this helps.
Blessings,
Angela
aww well like i've said before, there's someone out there for everyone, and you just have to wait, and what ever happens happens.
Jess
shit, most of us women think like me, life fucking sucks then ya die, sorry, sex only after marriage, been sexually assaulted, so guess what i have one hell of a time on that one. not religious, so yeah, personally i feel organized religion is a way to control the masses no. i dont think so. so yeah, ya aint my type and i certainly aint yours.
Agree with post 7.
why be so desperate?
Why be so desperate? Well since he hasn't posted here for over a year, it may be that he's not desperate anymore...
perhaps.
hugs. smiles.
Don't look. it never comes when you look..
ok. smiles.